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<rss version="2.0"><channel><title>Mathew's comments - Latest Comments in Google ruining Christmas? Get a grip</title><link>http://mathewingram.disqus.com/</link><description></description><language>en</language><lastBuildDate>Fri, 28 Dec 2007 11:35:39 -0000</lastBuildDate><item><title>Re: Google ruining Christmas? Get a grip</title><link>http://www.mathewingram.com/work/2007/12/26/google-ruining-christmas-get-a-grip/#comment-49863</link><description>I'm with Bob 100% on this one. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I knew my shared items were public, but I also thought it was only if someone stumbled upon them, or if i sent them the link. I never imagined that they would be PUSHED to my gmail contacts. and that's what Google did and is doing. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I really, so very much really don't want my ex-husband being pushed my shared items feed. it's just creepy!! and I need to keep him as a gmail contact because we share custody of our dog. so, removing him as a contact is not an option.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;so, now I don't "share" any items but re-tag them. and I have emailed the few people I know reading my shared items to tell them of the new feed. but this is more hassle and completely stupid.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Collette</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 28 Dec 2007 11:35:39 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Google ruining Christmas? Get a grip</title><link>http://www.mathewingram.com/work/2007/12/26/google-ruining-christmas-get-a-grip/#comment-48210</link><description>I agree completely.  This is a non-issue.  It is very obvious that Shared Items are, well, shared.  Google even clearly states the items have their own public RSS feed.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Mike Reynolds</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 Dec 2007 23:17:49 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Google ruining Christmas? Get a grip</title><link>http://www.mathewingram.com/work/2007/12/26/google-ruining-christmas-get-a-grip/#comment-48079</link><description>Finally, an opinion that matches my own.  The current whinge mentality of the blogosphere is kinda starting to piss me off.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Lets refresh our memories of what shared items are, in Googles own words, inside Reader when you click on it.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;"Your shared items are publicly accessible.&lt;br&gt;They are available as a page at &lt;a href="http://www.google.com/reader/shared/xxxxxx" rel="nofollow"&gt;http://www.google.com/reader/shared/xxxxxx&lt;/a&gt; (and there's a feed  too) "&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Are people seriously going to argue that Shared items are anything but? Its crystal clear. Black and white.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;If people want a private bookmarking service, use the Star or create a tag of your own. Click Settings &amp;gt; Tags and you will see that you can make any arbitrary tag public or private.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Project</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 Dec 2007 19:44:15 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Google ruining Christmas? Get a grip</title><link>http://www.mathewingram.com/work/2007/12/26/google-ruining-christmas-get-a-grip/#comment-48031</link><description>I've never viewed share on Google Reader as anything other than making it public to anyone who's interested. Then again, i star more than I share.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Mark Evans</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 Dec 2007 18:28:05 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Google ruining Christmas? Get a grip</title><link>http://www.mathewingram.com/work/2007/12/26/google-ruining-christmas-get-a-grip/#comment-47955</link><description>Indeed. Offline, I share information with contacts and friends differently based on lots of factors. I'd love to do the same online.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">bobcaswell</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 Dec 2007 16:50:02 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Google ruining Christmas? Get a grip</title><link>http://www.mathewingram.com/work/2007/12/26/google-ruining-christmas-get-a-grip/#comment-47931</link><description>Here here.  The voice of reason.  "Sharing" is a matter of choice - the users choice.  It might be a little singular - one share for all - but a choice all the same.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;And the benefits are substantial - a human filtered rss feed - now i can go on holiday - "mute" my feeds and refer to my fellow bloggers on my return.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Hooray for a happy holiday!!</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">jon bradford</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 Dec 2007 16:28:09 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Google ruining Christmas? Get a grip</title><link>http://www.mathewingram.com/work/2007/12/26/google-ruining-christmas-get-a-grip/#comment-47927</link><description>Interesting... Maybe I'm pointing out the obvious here, but if the average user doesn't know or care about these kinds of privacy issues (which I happen to agree with mostly), then hasn't the "openness is good" crowd already won by default?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I have yet to see anything remotely close to what Scoble described (granular privacy controls). That is, most all online identities are just one big on/off switch for public vs. private, at best. And if average users don't know or care, then changing that is probably way down on the list for any company.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I personally think these types of features could be useful and are long overdue. But that's a whole different story, and I'm likely not in the average user group.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">bobcaswell</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 Dec 2007 16:25:52 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Google ruining Christmas? Get a grip</title><link>http://www.mathewingram.com/work/2007/12/26/google-ruining-christmas-get-a-grip/#comment-47920</link><description>I think you are probably bang on there, Kevin -- it's more of a proxy&lt;br&gt;battle between the "privacy is dead" and the "openness is good" camps,&lt;br&gt;each using the theoretical average user (who probably doesn't know or&lt;br&gt;care) as a blunt instrument in their rhetorical feud.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">mathewi</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 Dec 2007 16:14:01 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Google ruining Christmas? Get a grip</title><link>http://www.mathewingram.com/work/2007/12/26/google-ruining-christmas-get-a-grip/#comment-47917</link><description>I can see where Bob is coming from here - that for the "outside world" things might be a little unclear. But I actually think Google has done a good job in trying to explain with whom Shared Items are shared. The first time I used the feature it told me that things were being made public, and I would argue that those who use the feature to begin with likely have a decent idea of what they're doing - having most likely shared stuff on other social networks and used the "email this" buttons on news sites, etc. in the past. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;It's tough to know where the non-tech-savvy users fall on the spectrum of understanding, but my guess would be that by and large they understand that sharing means "make public." Could be wrong, of course, but again, I think Google did what could be reasonably expected of them. If a person doesn't understand the basic concept of sharing to begin with, granular privacy controls are pretty much useless.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;That said, the thing that bothers me about this debate is that individuals who throw around terms like "URL Obfuscation" were somehow surprised by this. I have a strong feeling that much of the indignation expressed is not personally felt, but on the behalf of some (perhaps imaginary) users somewhere out there.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;As with the Facebook News Feed, I get the sense that the noise is being made by a small contingent of "privacy is dying!" folks, while the vast majority of users think, "oh cool," and the "openness people" trumpet their usual "privacy is dead" horns. Two edges attempting to rile a mass of people who probably don't care.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Kevin</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 Dec 2007 16:10:42 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Google ruining Christmas? Get a grip</title><link>http://www.mathewingram.com/work/2007/12/26/google-ruining-christmas-get-a-grip/#comment-47914</link><description>Bob, I'm prepared to admit that Google may have communicated the&lt;br&gt;change badly, or been less sympathetic with users than it should have&lt;br&gt;been.  To me, those are separate issues.  If I'm sharing something, I&lt;br&gt;assume it will be with other Google Reader users or with my social&lt;br&gt;network -- and I don't think Google can be faulted for making the&lt;br&gt;assumption that your GTalk contacts are a reasonable facscimile of&lt;br&gt;your social network.  I will agree with MG Siegler at ParisLemon,&lt;br&gt;though,  that Google needs to make it easier for you to manage those&lt;br&gt;contacts.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">mathewi</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 Dec 2007 16:06:02 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Google ruining Christmas? Get a grip</title><link>http://www.mathewingram.com/work/2007/12/26/google-ruining-christmas-get-a-grip/#comment-47902</link><description>Ah, but "with others" is much different than "whoever Google decides based on a change implemented." Again, maybe you don't care or understood this was a logical progression. But a change did happen that does cause more open sharing that didn't necessarily happen before...&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;People probably didn't assume sharing was "only with yourself," rather, they probably assumed it was with "who I decide." But now Google has come out and basically said, "no, with who we decide, not you." And the way Google communicated that sucked royally, imho. And when a big company sucks at communicating with its users, crybabies tend to point it out.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">bobcaswell</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 Dec 2007 15:51:30 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Google ruining Christmas? Get a grip</title><link>http://www.mathewingram.com/work/2007/12/26/google-ruining-christmas-get-a-grip/#comment-47886</link><description>Bob, I'm not sure who you think the "share" function shares your&lt;br&gt;Google Reader items with, but I thought it was pretty obvious they&lt;br&gt;were shared with others, including others using Google Reader. In&lt;br&gt;fact, I was kind of surprised that the feature everyone is complaining&lt;br&gt;about wasn't part of the sharing function to begin with.  What sense&lt;br&gt;does it make to assume that they are "shared" only with yourself?&lt;br&gt;Like I said, that's what the star function is for.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">mathewi</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 Dec 2007 15:39:02 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Google ruining Christmas? Get a grip</title><link>http://www.mathewingram.com/work/2007/12/26/google-ruining-christmas-get-a-grip/#comment-47878</link><description>I can see how this a "no big deal" topic for the "embrace openness" crowd, which decided a long time ago that privacy was underrated. But outside, where the rest of the world lives, I mean, come on, is it that hard to see how this potentially could be an issue?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I agree with Erick of TechCrunch in that this is more of a consumer perception problem than a privacy problem. And, Mathew, perhaps I don't understand the word "share." But last time I checked, it didn't imply "publicly share" any more than "privately share." And I'm sure you've done plenty of both types of sharing in your life to realize that the issue has little to do with semantics.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;But I do agree that the "ruining Christmas" rhetoric is a bit much.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">bobcaswell</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 Dec 2007 15:30:54 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Google ruining Christmas? Get a grip</title><link>http://www.mathewingram.com/work/2007/12/26/google-ruining-christmas-get-a-grip/#comment-47836</link><description>I agree, Louis.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">mathewi</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 Dec 2007 15:02:02 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Google ruining Christmas? Get a grip</title><link>http://www.mathewingram.com/work/2007/12/26/google-ruining-christmas-get-a-grip/#comment-47827</link><description>It is absolutely not a violation of privacy. It's this simple. When you "Shared" the item, you made it part of the public domain with a public URL. If you want to keep it private, don't share it.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The Web is more transparent than ever. Blogging is public. Del.icio.us bookmarks are public. Shared items are public. The whining needs to stop.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Forget About Privacy. Embrace Openness.&lt;br&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.louisgray.com/live/2007/12/forget-about-privacy-embrace-openness.html" rel="nofollow"&gt;http://www.louisgray.com/live/2007/12/forget-ab...&lt;/a&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Louis Gray</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 Dec 2007 14:57:12 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Google ruining Christmas? Get a grip</title><link>http://www.mathewingram.com/work/2007/12/26/google-ruining-christmas-get-a-grip/#comment-47769</link><description>I agree, J.  Pretty dumb, I think.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">mathewi</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 Dec 2007 14:03:03 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Google ruining Christmas? Get a grip</title><link>http://www.mathewingram.com/work/2007/12/26/google-ruining-christmas-get-a-grip/#comment-47763</link><description>OH NO THE SKY IS FALLING!  I never understood the hysteria about this this week.  Since Ol' Goog married GTalk and GReader almost two weeks ago to the day, you figure people would have expected this to happen, it's only a natural progression.  But no, people are bemoaning the fact that their contacts can see their feeds.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Let alone ignore the fact that, as you stated, they have to use GReader too.  And you have to share items.  And you have to specifically share your feeds with certain people in your list, or allow access to the shared feed.  It seems in the Christmas fury, everyone forgot that just because you share an item doesn't mean everyone -- or anyone -- actually sees it without you authorizing them to.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">jwestfall</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 Dec 2007 13:58:41 -0000</pubDate></item></channel></rss>